In The Operating Theatre For Cesarean Birth at Pantai Hospital Melaka

For our third baby, we opted for cesarean birth. This is a diary of me in the operating theatre for cesarean birth at Pantai Hospital Melaka.

Life, with its relentless march, often prompts us to reflect on the essence of our journey. As my wife and I navigated the complexities of ageing, we found ourselves on the precipice of a monumental decision. Already blessed with two beautiful souls, Jordan and Jasmine, the former via natural birth and the latter through Cesarean after a failed 8-hour of natural birth, we faced a new reality with the anticipation of our third child, Baby Jadiel.

In The Operating Theatre With My Wife For Cesarean Birth

Recognising the impact of time, particularly on my brave wife, we chose to proceed with a Caesarean section (aka C-Section). This choice was rooted in our commitment to safeguarding the health and safety of both the mother and the baby. After being with my wife in the labour room twice, I know how risky and dangerous it could be to deliver a baby naturally. IMHO, natural birth is not only exhausting, painful and gruelling, but also very life-threatening for both the mom and the baby.

A Different Path: Cesarean Birth at Hospital Pantai Melaka

Hence, our journey this time diverted from the familiar corridors of Hospital Besar Melaka to the welcoming embrace of Hospital Pantai Melaka albeit at much exorbitant price. For Jordan boy, his natural birth costed around RM70++ while for Jasmine girl, it was slightly more expensive at around RM120++. For our baby Jadiel's cesarean surgery, the total bill at Pantai Hospital Melaka was RM8,000.

We arrived at Pantai Hospital Melaka

This switch from a government hospital to a private one was not merely a change of venue, but a conscious choice influenced by a deeper understanding of our needs and priorities. The government’s stance on natural childbirth, while respected, prompted us to seek an environment that aligned more closely with our current circumstances. Thus, under the faint whispers of dawn (at around 6:00 a.m.), we embarked on this pivotal day at the private hospital, hearts filled with hope and minds braced for the journey ahead.

The Calm Before the Storm

The hours leading up to the surgery were a maelstrom of emotions and preparations. As my wife was tenderly prepared by the nursing staff for the ordeal to come, I navigated the administrative maze of her admission, each step a testament to our shared resolve. The wait was an arduous test of patience, each moment stretching into eternity, laden with anticipation and silent prayers.

My wife was ready to go to the Operating Theatre

Wifey taking a brief nap 😊

It is time! 💪

Finally, as the time drew near, I adorned myself in the sterile gowns of a spectator about to witness yet another miracle from my wife. My heart raced as I awaited the moment I could stand by my wife's side, a silent guardian and unwavering support. I had to wait for the green light from the anaesthetist before I could be by my wife's side. After the 2 jabs of anaesthetics were successfully administered, I could finally stand next to my wife, holding her right hand tightly in mine.

We were waiting just outside the Operating Theatre

In the Theatre of Life

The operating theatre became a sacred ground where love and science converged. Clutching my wife’s hand, I bore witness to the profound display of courage and vulnerability. The sight of her enduring such a procedure was heart-wrenching—a visceral reminder of the sacrifices borne out of love. The surgeon cut open my wife layer by layer carefully as they reached out to our baby Jadiel. I will forever remember that exact sight when the sharp blade slitted my wife's skin and flesh. Blood could be seen oozing out from my wife's body and my heart ached badly. My wife has sacrificed so much for me. Yet, amidst the ordeal, there lay a profound beauty—the indomitable spirit of a woman in the act of creation.

Our baby Jadiel minutes after his birth 😍

The First Glimpse of Joy

And then, in a moment that seemed suspended in time, Baby Jadiel was gently brought into this world. The doctors' skilled hands carefully ushered him from his first cradle, his cries piercing the solemnity of the theatre—a symphony of life. As he was brought to my wife's side, our tears mingled—tears wrought from the deepest wells of joy and relief. The bond sealed with my wife's first kiss upon Jadiel's forehead was an emblem of eternal love and sacrifice.

Wifey and her precious newborn Jadiel 😘

Embracing Our Future

The ensuing separation, as Jadiel was attended to by nurses, felt like an endless void. Yet, when I finally held him in my arms, every fear evaporated under the weight of his gaze. Holding him, I was enveloped in gratitude and love—a love so profound it defied expression. This tiny being represented not just our future but also the culmination of our hopes and dreams.

A Family Reborn

The wait for my wife's return felt like an odyssey unto itself. I believe I waited for her for 1 or 2 hours with no news from the operating theatre but to wait. Yet, upon seeing her safe and sound, a serene calm enveloped me. The doctor’s assurance of their well-being was a balm to my soul. At that moment, I was awash with pride for my wife—her resilience and bravery were boundless. My wife is truly a selfless mother who has time and again risked her life for our babies and more importantly for me. I will never, ever forget what she has done for me for lifetimes to come!

A Heart Full of Gratitude

This journey has stretched the bounds of our emotions—navigating through fear, enduring pain, basking in joy, and finally resting in gratitude. Words fail to encapsulate the depth of my admiration for my wife—her unwavering courage and sacrifice are beyond measure. She is not just my partner but my hero—a beacon of strength guiding our family through life’s tempests.

Thank you to my one and only beloved wife for giving me 3 beautiful babies 😍

Baby Jadiel’s arrival has bestowed upon us a joy that is both immense and humbling. It serves as a poignant reminder of life’s preciousness and the beauty inherent in sacrifice. As I reflect upon this odyssey, my heart overflows—not just with love for my wife and children but with gratitude towards the medical professionals who shepherded us through this experience.

Thanks for coming to our world Jadiel boy! 💖

Our story is more than just about welcoming another life into our family; it is a tribute to my wife's unconditional love, devotion, and sacrifice—a testament to the fortitude of all mothers who traverse the path of childbirth. To my wife: your strength is our foundation, your love our guiding light. Together with Jordan, Jasmine, and now Jadiel, we stand united—a family forged through love, strengthened by trials, and eternally grateful for each other’s presence in this journey called life.