Do you say this, "I used to be indecisive, but now I'm not sure." Decisions that we make transform our ideas into realities. You have to know that your destiny is never a matter of chance. It has been and will always be a matter of CHOICE! A lot of us have the right aims in our life but we seem unable to pull the trigger. Why is that so? We have to know what we really want in order to attain it. Harvey Cox once said, "Not to decide is to decide."
Look at your lawn...weeds grow easily in the soil of indecision. Now throw your sight onto the road: If you stand in the middle of the road, it is very dangerous. Why? Because you can get knocked down by traffic going both directions. Because of indecision, you can die before you're actually dead. A man with watch knows what time it is; a man with two is never quite sure. Until you are decisively committed, there is hesitancy and the chance for you to fall back and what follows is ineffectiveness.
Indecision is debilitating; It fees upon itself;
It is, one might say, habit forming.
No only that, but it is contagious;
it transmits itself to others.
~H. A. Hopf~
Great people have will instead of just wishes for the greater the degree of wishful thinking , the greater the degree of mediocrity. Those who are weak are always forced to decide between alternatives that others have set before them instead of the ones they've chosen for themselves. In other words, the destinies of indecisive people have been decided by others who are decisive. This kind of life will leave you unhappy but you have no right to complain what you (your indecisiveness) have permitted.
The average man does not know what to do with this life,
yet wants another one that will last forever.
A wise person makes his own decisions while an ignorant one will always follow the tide. You are where you are today because of the choices you have made and have not made. Results and success come in tandem with commitment and decisions. The undeniable truth is that one decisive person always accomplishes more than a hundred people with merely interest.
Neo chose his own destiny!
It's time for you to stand up and decide. Be decisive even if ti means you'll sometimes be wrong. A key to your future is that you can still choose, you can still decide. You are the master of your very own destiny. What you commit yourself to be will change you from what you are into what YOU CAN BE. Be sure and decisive for your decisions determine your destiny.